Quick guide on what to look out for if you think you are being played. But before I begin I have to say that you will never know! The one you are with can love you and be with you and have normal behaviour but also have an affair on the side or some sort of infidelity going on. You can’t just rely on these hints. Sometimes you will never know. Trust your sixth sense and sometimes it’s just better to be honest and ask face-to-face if you think something is going on. last minute plans These plans, that he didn’t have when you asked about what he was going to be doing earlier on this morning. But a “mate” just got in touch and they are meeting up. If, when you ask he doesn’t want to talk about it as much as he would do when he would really go with his mates then he is probably lying, straight to your face. Defensive attitude If when asking him about his day to day and the things he used to say to you don’t make sense and you happen to question it and instead of ju...