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How to survive friends with benefits

Before I start, let’s ask ourselves what are friends with benefits?  Simply (but complicated enough sometimes) they are friends or acquaintances that you just happen to want to sleep with, no strings attached. What does no “strings attached “mean? Well I don’t want to be in a relationship, or meet your pals and family, etc. I just want to have a good time with you and only you at a certain time and then get on with my life.   Let’s be honest, this is not how it usually goes. There’s always some type of inflicted drama going on and therefore people just lose hope about having FWB. Now, below I have a short but straight to the point guide on how not screw up. kEEP IT MINIMAL YOU ANIMAL   Just keep the contact minimal. Not that type of contact, the communicative type of contact. Communicate when needed, don’t get in touch just to ask about how his day is going, his day is probably going very well thanks for asking. He is not interested in anything els...

Friends with benefits...?

Quick guide on what to expect when a friend’s w/ benefits starts to flourish. Watch out for these signs and know where you are at. Again, you know me, delivering the information and being brutally honest about it. Keep reading for this quick guide on friend’s w/ benefits.  DOESN’T KNOW MUCH ABOUT YOU    You probably know more about him than what he does about you. He is most likely to just want to keep it that way, not knowing what your favourite colour is or what you like to eat for breakfast. You probably don’t want to know about him either. CASUAL CONVERSATIONS He sure doesn’t ask about what you were up to last night and sure is not interested in knowing. Keeping it just to what it is, he doesn’t want to get involved in anything emotional, he is just there to relieve his sexual frustrations and you seem a good partner to that with, don’t over think it, it is what it seems. DOESN’T TO GET BACK TO YOU He is probably just not interested to k...