Survival guide to relationships

Before I start, let’s ask ourselves what are friends with benefits?  Simply (but complicated enough sometimes) they are friends or acquaintances that you just happen to want to sleep with, no strings attached. What does no “strings attached “mean? Well I don’t want to be in a relationship, or meet your pals and family, etc. I just want to have a good time with you and only you at a certain time and then get on with my life.   Let’s be honest, this is not how it usually goes. There’s always some type of inflicted drama going on and therefore people just lose hope about having FWB. Now, below I have a short but straight to the point guide on how not screw up. kEEP IT MINIMAL YOU ANIMAL   Just keep the contact minimal. Not that type of contact, the communicative type of contact. Communicate when needed, don’t get in touch just to ask about how his day is going, his day is probably going very well thanks for asking. He is not interested in anything els...

A short guide on how to not scare the guy off too fast too soon. Just a few no-no's and some advice when you are starting off with someone or just seeing someone you really like. Follow these tips and you will be sailing away in the right direction.  I have put it out there for you brutally but with all honesty, it is what it is and that's how we speak when we speak about it, so let's get started.  BEING TOO NEEDY Do your own thing, meet up with your friends, enjoy life and stop *insert here* him. He is doing him, working, occupying himself with his hobbies, passions and other life responsibilities. He is not at your entire disposition, stop that entitled attitude and do you before you think of anyone else. Of course you can *insert here* but just keep in mind that just because he doesn’t reply to you fast doesn’t mean he is patching you, give him a break. And you, have a kit kat. *Calling *Texting *Instagramming *Snapchatting *Messaging *...

Quick guide on what to look out for if you think you are being played.  But before I begin I have to say that you will never know! The one you are with can love you and be with you and have normal behaviour but also have an affair on the side or some sort of infidelity going on. You can’t just rely on these hints. Sometimes you will never know. Trust your sixth sense and sometimes it’s just better to be honest and ask face-to-face if you think something is going on. last minute plans These plans, that he didn’t have when you asked about what he was going to be doing earlier on this morning. But a “mate” just got in touch and they are meeting up. If, when you ask he doesn’t want to talk about it as much as he would do when he would really go with his mates then he is probably lying, straight to your face. Defensive attitude If when asking him about his day to day and the things he used to say to you don’t make sense and you happen to question it and instead of ju...

Quick guide on what to expect when a friend’s w/ benefits starts to flourish. Watch out for these signs and know where you are at. Again, you know me, delivering the information and being brutally honest about it. Keep reading for this quick guide on friend’s w/ benefits.  DOESN’T KNOW MUCH ABOUT YOU    You probably know more about him than what he does about you. He is most likely to just want to keep it that way, not knowing what your favourite colour is or what you like to eat for breakfast. You probably don’t want to know about him either. CASUAL CONVERSATIONS He sure doesn’t ask about what you were up to last night and sure is not interested in knowing. Keeping it just to what it is, he doesn’t want to get involved in anything emotional, he is just there to relieve his sexual frustrations and you seem a good partner to that with, don’t over think it, it is what it seems. DOESN’T TO GET BACK TO YOU He is probably just not interested to k...